Divided wanting is the ordinary state. You want to leave and you want to stay. You want the ambitious version of the year and also to be home by six with your shoes off.
Things stall not because nothing was listening, but because you were pulling in two directions and calling it indecision.
Unifying isn't pretending one half doesn't exist. It's choosing, out loud, and letting the other want be real and unfollowed. Half-hearted effort is usually just two hearts having an argument.